How attracted to you are to someone varies from person to person, but there are some endearing personality traits that are pretty universally attractive. Bustle, and Jeannie Assimos who is chief of advice at eHarmony, explain what traits people find the most endearing.

  • Uniqueness is a trait that people tend to find attractive and endearing which is awesome because there are so many ways that you can highlight your uniqueness on a date or in public to attract people to you!
  • Charisma can charm those around you and get them to listen to what you have to say. A lot of good politicians have charisma which makes them good at what they do because the public is drawn to them and find them interesting!
  • Empathy is probably one of the best traits that you can have as it shows your ability to attempt to understand other people's feelings and experiences. The ways you can show empathy is to check in with the person you're with and listen to them.

Having these and other endearing traits helps you to connect easily with other people. If you struggle to make friends, working on these traits and other endearing qualities can help you if you go out to meet new people.

(via Bustle)