If you've started to date someone new, it's very normal to be on the lookout for red flags, but I'm sure you don't think about finding them in the bedroom. Bustle warns that there are some things that happen between the sheets that you should be worried about.

  • They focus on themselves instead of making sure that you're also enjoying yourself. Someone who is selfish in bed is most likely selfish in other areas, and it could be a sign of emotional distance.
  • They avoid eye contact during sex with you. Weird, right? It could very well mean that they are not comfortable with you yet, or that they don't feel close to you yet.
  • They don't respect your boundaries which could put you in a dangerous situation. If you ask them not to do something in the bedroom, and they ignore your request, that is one of the worst red flags. Trust and respect are two very important things to have when being intimate with someone else.

If two partners are willing to communicate and work together, most bedroom issues can be resolved, but some are red flags that can be hard to get past.

(via Bustle)