Signs That You’re Not A Priority
When you love someone and are dating them, you never want to be told that you aren't their priority when they are the most important person in the world to you. Unfortunately, Bustle says that there are some signs to look out for if you're worried that that might be the case for you and your partner.
- They forget to tell you important life decisions that they've made such as taking a new job elsewhere or deciding to move across town. At a certain point in a relationship, you two should be making big life decisions together, not being told that your partner already made those decisions alone and then forgot to tell you about them.
- You don't get invited to family events even if you two have been dating for a few months already. Meeting their family is an important step to make in any relationship, and if they keep putting it off and making excuses then they might not see you as being as serious as you might think that you two are.
- They only make plans last minute and can never plan for something more than a day in advance. If they can make vacation plans with their friends months in advance, but can't be bothered to make plans with you more than a day ahead of time, you might not be a priority to them.
Making sure that you and your partner are on the same page when it comes to your relationship is important. If you think that you might be more invested than they are, then you need to have a conversation and figure out where you two both stand.