Dating can be overwhelming, and maybe you get nervous on a first date. That's okay! But Bustle reveals that there are still some things that you should never, ever say on a date.

  • Anything with the words "most girls..." in it such as "you're not like most girls". It tells your date that you generalize an entire gender and that tells them that you (probably) don't have any feminist views.
  • Telling them that you want to get them drunk because that has only negative implications. If you want to impair our judgement, what do you want to do after that? We'll probably switch to water after you make that comment (either that or we will just leave).
  • Bringing up an ex-girlfriend in conversation at any time. To your date, that tells us that you're not over her yet because I promise you, we do not care about your ex-partner. We want to get to know you, not her.

Nerves can make you say dumb things, but some of these things that you say can have your date running for the hills. Be smart, think before you talk, and if you need to, have the other person ask a question first!

(via Bustle)