Tanya’s Midweek Crisis Letter- I Intentionally Sabotaged My Friend, Was This Wrong?

Here is what this week's letter writer had to say:

"For a few years I had a roommate. We were constantly competing with each other, and she wasn't a very good friend to me. So, I retaliated. Every Friday I made it our 'thing' to go out and get a burger and fries. After about three months, she'd gained ten pounds. I was intentionally trying to sabotage her diet and well... it worked. I can't be the only woman who's sabotaged a friend, right?"

Where do I begin?!?! I have NEVER tried to sabotage a friend of mine...ever! I am not in competition with my friends. I also want my friends to be happy. Why would you ever sabotage a friend? I think you need to work on your own self esteem, because I'm thinking you're lack of it is causing your desire to sabotaging your friends.