Is Your Ex Still Hung Up On You?
Is your ex from last year somehow showing up in the new decade? Whether they're texting you out of the blue or calling you wanting to meet up for drinks, it can be hard to know what to do when your ex is struggling to move on.
The best thing you can do is make sure that you're not sending them any mixed messages. If you agree to meet up, or show signs of sympathy, they might believe that there is a chance that they can win you back, and you have to make it clear that there is no chance that 2020 will be a year of reconciliation for you two.
You may not like them anymore, but you also don't want to be the bad guy, so it can be hard to turn them down and reject their advances. If it's too difficult to play nice, then it might be best to go no contact. If they text you, ignore it, if they call you, let it go to voicemail. Eventually, hopefully, they will get the hint and move on.
It can be really tough to stop talking to someone who you thought was once your best friend, but for the sake of you both, giving each other space to move on is the best thing that you can do. Make 2020 a year for you, not for your ex.